
The Rev. Frank Logue Whose Child Are You? Conversations are not always what they appear to be. Sometimes
we find a deeper meaning hiding under the words being said. Growing up in the Deep South,
I have seen this time and again. Examine southern gentility. It has a dark side. The
person smiling so sweetly at the dinner party may be cutting you down to bite-sized
pieces. It goes something like this. Imagine one woman coming up to
another at a party. Where did you ever get that dress? Why I have never seen anyone
put together an outfit quite like you. Trust me. That is saccharine sweet. The
sweetness you hear is definitely artificial, and you have not just been paid a compliment.
What the so-called compliment really meant to do was underscore, You are not one of
us. In this weeks Gospel reading, we see Jesus in a
conversation like this. This time it is in a confrontation with some Sadducees. The words
of the text, the surface of the story is all about resurrection. But underneath this
veneer, the Sadducees are attacking Jesus, and he challenges them to consider the
question, Whose child are you? The passage will challenge each of us with the
same question, Whose child are you? We are told that some Sadducees come to ask Jesus a question.
The Sadducees were among the elite of Jerusalem. They controlled the worship at the
Temple. They were the real religious movers and shakers in town. The Sadducees cut deals
with the Romans to make sure that the worship in the Temple continued under Roman rule.
Every male Jew over the age of 20 paid a half-shekel tax to the Temple. The Sadducees were
in so tight with the Romans that the Roman government helped with transporting the tax
from the Empires hinterlands to Jerusalem. The wealth of the Temple was at its peak,
and these guys were on the top of that heap. As religious leaders, they should have been well connected to
God. Doubtless many Sadducees were. But there were other connections as well. By making
deals with Rome, the Sadducees allied themselves with the powers of this agethe
powers of the worldinstead of God. They were concerned with the here and now and had
neither the time nor the inclination to consider the sweet by and by. The Sadducees were connected. The Sadducees had the power. The
Sadducees had the influence. The Sadducees had the money. The Sadducees had a lot to lose.
The Sadducees were not going to risk everything on some hick. No country bumpkin from
Nazareth or anywhere else was going to disrupt the way things worked. The Roman Governor
Pontius Pilate was in town. The Sadducees needed to contain this Jesus of Nazareth before
everything got out of hand. They knew where their loyalties laythe Temple. And if
Rome would protect the Temple, then they would fall in line and work for Rome, too. The Sadducees come to Jesus and say, Teacher, Moses wrote
for us that if a mans brother dies, leaving a wife but no children, the man shall
marry the widow and raise up children for his brother. Now there were seven brother; the
first married and died childless; then the second and the third married her , and so in
the same way all seven died childless. Finally the woman also died. In the resurrection,
therefore, whose wife will the woman be? For the seven had married her. The question they brought was more of an answer than a question.
The Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection. They used questions like the
seven brothers for one bride story they brought to Jesus to poke fun at those who
believed in resurrection. This question about the seven brothers was their
proof of the ridiculousness of belief in resurrection. It presents a case so extreme that
it would likely never arise. Jesus cut through the confusion of the question to the heart of
the matter. But at first reading, his reply is not so comforting. Jesus said, Those
who belong to this age marry and are given in marriage; but those who are considered
worthy of a place in that age and in the resurrection from the dead neither marry nor are
given in marriage. Indeed they cannot die anymore, because they are like angels and are
children of God, being children of the resurrection. Hold everything. Run that by me again. Those who are considered
worthy of that age neither marry nor are given in marriage. You can't get to heaven if you
are married? Well [point at wedding band] Ive got a little problem here. As a matter
of fact, Ive got a BIG problem here. Say it aint so Jesus. Jesus cant mean that Im shut out of the resurrection
because Im married, can he? No, we all know better than that. But we cant just
ignore these words. So we have to look deeper to see what Jesus was really saying.
Remember the context of Jesus words. He is not just telling his views on
resurrection. Jesus is answering the question posed by the Sadducees. The Sadducees did
not believe in the resurrection. They believed that the only way we have eternal life is
through our children. If there was such a thing as the resurrection, they assumed that the
next life would be just like this one. For the Sadducees, the way to achieve eternal life is through
marrying (or for women, to be given in marriage) and having children. That is the idea to
which Jesus is responding. Jesus counters this notion saying that we dont have
eternal life through our children, rather we have eternal life through the resurrection.
So there is nothing wrong with getting married as long as you dont pin your hopes of
eternal life to marriage and your children. How many children you have is not the concern.
What matters is whether you are a child of God. Whose child you are often matters. Looking at how that works may
help us better understand the Gospel reading. For better or worse, people often decide
what kind of person you will be because of your parents. In big cities, its not quite the
same. But in small towns and rural areas it can make quite a difference. Think about the
time-honored ritual many girls have gone through of asking their parents for permission to
go on a date. A key question at this point is, Whos his Daddy? The
character of the boys father could decide whether permission will be given for the
date. After all, the way a child acts will depend a lot on the parents. Its like a farmer looking down in the pasture and seeing
kids playing in his cow pond. He rides down and looks them all over. If they were
strangers, he might tell them to get out of his pond. But for a bunch of neighbor kids,
where he knows the parents, he might let them swim. Calling the kids up on the bank, he
announces, I know who your Daddies are. Yall dont get into
trouble. The message is two sided. He has an idea how the kids will act because he
knows the parents. He also knows who to talk to if they need pulling back in line. Thats something like what is going on here. Jesus listened
to the Sadducees question. He looked at the way they ran the business of the Temple, and
found that it showed them to be more concerned with the here and now than with God. Jesus
in effect says to the Sadducees, The way you fellows talk you know who you sound
like? You sound just like one of Caesars boys. As a matter of fact, I think he is
your Daddy. The religious leaders must have felt like a bunch of wet kids standing
on the bank of a neighbors cow pond. Those are fighting words and the message came through
loud and clear to the Sadducees. They knew that Jesus was saying they were children of
this age instead of Gods children. This passage challenges us to look at the choices we make. Are
we siding with this agethe considerations the world puts on usor do we side
with God? In the decisions we make, are we thinking like a child of this age or a child of
God? When we make choices as individuals is God a factor? How often do you pray about the
decisions you make? How often do you ask yourself where is God working in a given
situation. The time we live inthis ageis hard and cold. This world can grind you up and spit you out. But we are Gods children, not children of this age. We are Gods children both in the here and now and in the life to come. Jesus said he was going to prepare a place for us and that he would come to take us there. The afterlife is real. This age is not all there is to life. As a loving parent, God calls us into relationship. Through living with God, day in and day out in prayer and Bible study, through the fellowship of a church, we learn to act more and more as children of God. Make God an essential part of the decisions you make. Pray for God's guidance and expect it. You can pray that God opens doors of opportunity for you while closing others. But don't feel you have to get everything just right all the
time to be a child of God. If we make mistakes, we can say we are sorry and try again. God
will pick us up, dust us off, and set us back on the path. Even though you don't always
make all the right decisions, God loves you. The main thing is not to be perfect. The main
thing is to remember whose child you are. Amen. |
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